And Peace is the antidote to War. Recent events have, again, reminded us that there is a tiny minority of people in the world who seek to impose their extreme fanatical worldviews of intolerance, oppression and violence on the rest of us. They maim, kill, and frighten us with their hatred.
When someone threatens or attacks us, our first instinct is to fight back and to seek retribution. We see the enemy everywhere , and indiscriminately lash out. As a result many innocent and law abiding people, such as Muslims, are lumped in with the terrorists and so feel afraid and even suffer verbal and physical attacks from other normally law abiding people.
Are we proud of this response? Is not meeting violence with more violence and hatred with more hatred just lowering us to the same level as the fanatics? Didn’t Martin Luther King and Mahatma Ghandi both show us that hatred can be conquered by love, and violence conquered by peace?
Imagine what would happen if we countered every terrorist attack with an outpouring of love? Not for the terrorists themselves, but for the people that they claim to represent – Muslims, Hindis, Sikhs and so on.
Everyone in this world is trying their best to succeed in life (yes, even the fanatics). Ultimately each one of us is seeking peace and contentment. Depending on our upbringing, culture and personal experiences we all try to achieve this by different means. First, of course, we cannot be content if we are hungry, cold, or frightened. Beyond that we may seek love, fame, riches or power in an attempt to feel at peace and content. We may also look for spiritual hope and solace. And that, of course, leads us down different paths of faith and religion.
Some religions say that there are many paths to salvation. Others that there is only one true way – which thus implies that the other ways are wrong. But one thing is true of every single religion and faith – each one is a matter of faith, of belief. Not one of us can be 100% certain that our beliefs are ‘correct’. And, therefore, not one of us can say, categorically, that someone else’s faith is ‘wrong’.
Which leads us to something that every major faith and religion teaches us: to be humble and to love our neighbour. Yes, your neighbours might believe differently to you, but guess what? Just like you, they are doing the best they know how to find that same peace and contentment that you are seeking.
So perhaps you have more in common than you realise. Maybe you can express that neighbourly love by asking them to share their faith with you. What do they really believe? Why and how did they come to believe that? What does their holy book actually teach about how to behave, the status of women, children, marriage and more? And as they share, so too can you share. And in a spirit of exploration – not to impose your beliefs on them, but to discover more about life, you both may come to new appreciations of your own faith – and that of others. You may not agree with everything they say – but you can agree to disagree, as long as you both do so with humility and acceptance of difference.
Imagine, if you did this, and your neighbours did this, what such an outbreak of peace and love might look like? Where would be the space for hatred and violence if we all did this?
Do you agree? If so, share this essay with your friends and acquaintances. And how about going even one step further? Show this to a colleague or friend who has a different faith to you. Give them a small gift – perhaps some chocolate or a yellow flower (representing friendship) – and tell them how you appreciate having them, and the diversity they bring, in your life. Are you brave enough to do this? Or will you hide behind stereotypes and predjudice?